So my boyfriend who I live with… and have been with for 3 years just broke up w me, expressing he doesn’t want to marry me anymore.  I now just found out he’s been cheating.. 

I would love some advice. I’ve been through many breakups and heartbreaks being 26… however this one is different. We were planning getting married.. and were very serious.. I live(d) with him. I moved three hours away from my home to be with him (he is in the army). So I am far from my family and friends. I have a few friends here however I don’t know how to heal here. 

He moved out and told me he would help me with rent.. however I do not feel like I can heal in our home. We created this home together and I don’t know how to heal. I can’t just move out bc I would have to sign a lease to a new apartment and I don’t want to feel stuck here for a year lease (this lease is up in march so I have time to figure my plans out and stay til then) … I can’t just up and leave because I have an important job here and need more time to possibly transfer/put in my 30 days notice because I have a bunch of PTO saved up and don’t want to loose it

. Anyways…. I just feel like my life have fallen out in front of me. and I feel so small and like I have nothing left

Please help

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